The sad truth of the matter is, you would lose readers if you posted unattractive people. This year, when I discovered that my marriage was in real trouble, I realized that maybe I was suffering from depression. My daughter is the only thing that has always made me happy. He also tells me that I am nothing without him. I had nothing to apologize for.
I hated…she lived her life. I really am realizing more than ever the need to get away, regroup and recoop. That hurts even more since I am not a happy loner. Are you trying to say that he is so fragile that his wife stating her needs to him is going to break him? However, I am not willing to give up! Wonderful, God-inspired words that speak straight to the heart of so many women including myself. Shame leads to regret and remorse— but not to Jesus. I received very little love from my mother, was ridiculed when I told her her boyfriend was sexually abusive. When she gets home its studying, and shes gone two to three days a week at school, then two away at work.
I do not have the emotional strength to deal with their demands and crazy mind bending, distorted attempts to begin a relationship. He just can't be relied on, and when I have complained, he has gotten upset. I try to avoid this feeling but sometimes it is overwhelming. First remember you are one of the fittest most capable creatures to ever walk this planet. I was married 15 years got divorce and now trying to build a relationship with my ex wife. He is now utterly alone and miserable.
I just feel glad and grateful that I have children and a brain and my health including robust mental health - although I never take anything for granted. Now we have been married some 23 years and he changed. Of course, I won't be bed-ridden during all that time. I get blamed because I'm expecting too much of him. It will be much more than she can ever earn by going out to work. I try to keep up appearances but doing a worse and worse job.
My spouse is a great guy really he is but he does do something which really annoys me. This writing eases my pain and makes me feel better about the situation. I especially enjoyed your wife post. But seriously, is there such a thing?? Looking forward to connecting, Adriana. He wants to make me happy but is oblivious at times to the needs of our home and the anxiety it causes me when I feel solely responsible for all the work. In a 0 to 10 scale,there will be people who are only little jealous and also maximum jealous and in between.
Im at my witts end! This has caused me great animosity towards his child. We married less than two years ago. I know the source of it and why. I have done my best to give friendly reminders, but even they don't seem to work. Life may be short but you have one of the greatest mechanisms of all time, the mind. I too, was one who put everyone and everything first. I turned off my computer laid on the couch crying he hurts me.
I am definitely depressed and have tried dating again, but it is awful. A paycheck, another person to take care of. He wont help me around the house nothing but take out the trash. . We could never live up to His standard of absolute perfection.
He suffers from erectile dysfunction and my life has become a living hell. Others are miserable no matter how well their life is going. Does that make me too sensitive. After finishing his military service, my husband came to live with me in Hawaii, where I am stationed. Women on the other hand are called to submit themselves in order to create a sense of community as women by nature are more independent and need to work as a team, this is weakness on our part. All these things are fine and good, but you should not ever lose your sense of self.
It seems like she really is the perpetrator and so accusatory. Women desperately need to learn a sense of community. The happiest day of my life has now turned into the most difficult date in the calendar. How does a depressed person survive all this. Consciously try to remove it.
Twitter: Ronedmondson I'm a woman and found no offense to this post. Being married to someone who is never happy is very draining! Because this isn't some 'wife is the toughest job in the corps' pity party, it's called having feelings. He is depressed, lost, he takes it out on me now. I hope mine might help someone else, too. I cried in bed and I felt hurt while he came to bed''.